Fire Moons: Connection through passion, impulse, and adrenaline. Spontaneous adventures and get aways, conversations about philosophy, religion, and/or life ambitions, compliments, creating things together, helping them cool down when their feelings overwhelm them, late night conversations, road trips, attending social or artistic events together, standing up for them, recognizing their talents and efforts, giving them space when needed
Earth Moons: Connection through sensuality, spirituality, and comfort. Sharing food, food “dates”, nature walks, going to concerts, museums, or movies together, being patient and understanding with their feelings, telling them a certain song, picture, post, etc reminds you of them, thoughtful gifts, letting them borrow your possessions, giving them music or movie suggestions, napping together, making them feel ‘at home’, physical gestures, making them feel useful and valued, helping them remain productive and focused when experiencing difficulties
Air Moons: Connection through intellect, humor, and mental stimulation. researching and intellectualizing your emotions and your problems together, indulging in gossip, cracking jokes when things get too serious, deep late night conversations, sharing humorous posts with one another, providing distractions when overwhelming feelings take over, offering intellectual reasoning behind certain emotions and difficult situations, texting/messaging them more often than seeing them (they need physical space), playing games together
Water Moons: Connection through compassion, nourishment, and understanding. Physical affection, voicing your care and concern, making something creative and thoughtful for them, listening to their problems and coaxing them through by talking about them, allowing them to express their feelings fully, listening to music together, bringing them their favorite comfort foods, drinks, movies, etc., remembering small things they have told you about them, adapting to their moods so you can understand how to handle each one, encouraging them to partake in artistic outlets for their sensitivities